Should I check on my bf's myspace account?

I've been dating this guy for almost 3 months now, I asked my bf for his password for his myspace account. My sister and all my friends males and females told me that sharing passwords is the best way to get over jelousy involving myspace. He hesitated at first when I asked him for it, he asked me for time to think about it, then he gave it to me two days later, that was two days ago. Now I feel like I'm smothering him because he didn't ask me for my password. Should I go on with my sister's advise and log on to his account to check up on him? He is in the ARMY, he lives hours away from me, so we don't get to see much of eachother over the week. I have a feeling he is still meeting girls on that site. He says he loves me, and I care about him too. What should I do?

Should I check on my bf's myspace account?

you are a weird little one. if a guy asks me for a password i show him the door. crazy controlling, jealous, freaks. i'm secure enough in myself not to need that stuff.

Should I check on my bf's myspace account?

okay, it dont matter if u have his pw or not u have to trust him!

if u didnt trust him and he felt that he would just make up a new myspace account with a different pw! so yeah u can look up the one u have now or just accept that he loves u !!

Should I check on my bf's myspace account?

I think trust is the best way to keep a relationship going!!!

Should I check on my bf's myspace account?

If you can't trust him, then there's not much of a relationship there.

Should I check on my bf's myspace account?

That's not really the best way to get over jealousy..the best way is to trust and honestly, going through personal things won't help as much as you think. You might want to keep doing it and doing it but after a while you'll need to stop and just trust him. If it doesn't work out then it doesn't.

If you're worried then just ask him.

If you can't trust him or he isn't trustable, then you don't need to be with him.

Should I check on my bf's myspace account?

i would check!

Should I check on my bf's myspace account?

Well...now that he's erased all the stuff he didn't want you to read its not gonna be as interesting. Don't pay attention to it though..all that stuff is mostly talk. I'd be more concerned with what he does with his free time in the city hes stationed in...if hes talkin to you..no worries..

Should I check on my bf's myspace account?

go for it, but dont make a habit of checking it all the time. if you love him, trust him.

Should I check on my bf's myspace account?

If you care about this relationship, tell him you changed your mind and don't want to log into his account. Then, tell him to change his pw and never give it to you. If you don't absolutely trust him 100%, you have no business being with him.

Should I check on my bf's myspace account?

a guy can talk 2 girls, w/o falling for them. ask him this next time u guys chat if a girl shook her butt n his face would he leave w/ her or stay there w/ u. it makes guys think. i tried that on my first bf we was a player majorly. he said he would want us both. so i went on to another dude now my bf Charlie says theres nothing she would b able to do to make me leave u. he also said it look at her and say ur wasting ur time i'm taken and not budging.

Should I check on my bf's myspace account?

NO. You can view a person's myspace account without the password, which is all you would see other wise, except for private conversations. If you really dont trust the boy, he isnt worth your time, or u need to grow up. THIS ISNT JEALOUSY, THIS IS RIDICULOUS!

Should I check on my bf's myspace account?

It's normal for a girl to be curious or jealous about her boyfriend. But you have to trust him. You should really give him his privacy. At the same time, It's has to be tough not seeing him allot. Next time you see him you both should have a serious talk. It sounds like you have your doubts. I hope everything works out for you.

Should I check on my bf's myspace account?

uh no!didn't read scenerio but the bold i am answering. that would be snooping and for what?

Should I check on my bf's myspace account?

Give it a rest!

If you're worried, ASK HIM.

Don't go snooping around on his myspace. That's just wrong. It's an invasion of privacy, and when you asked him for it, it proved to him that you are jealous and don't trust him - and trust is extremely important in a healthy relationship.

You've already messed up by asking him for his password, but you can apologize and explain your situation to him. It's not too late to redeem yourself - take advantage of this opportunity to regain his trust.

Good luck.

Should I check on my bf's myspace account?

I feel that its out of line for someone to check their partners mail/myspace. If they are hiding something and know your checking it they will just work around it and contact people another way. If someone is going to cheat and go behind the back of their partner they will do it anyways. People should have some personal space, those who ask for passwords show an insecure and unattractive side to their partners. If someone asked for my password, I would see it as a red flag as to the nature of that person and how they are in relationships.

Should I check on my bf's myspace account?

woah sounds like my big sisters problem.

she went on his account and found sa TON of **** he was hiding from her.

they went out for 14 months.

she found out he was engaged.

and he was also in the army.

they were gunna move to goriga together cause he was on leave.

and he ended up leaving 2 days before they were sapposed to leave and saying NOTHING to her for 6 months.

we even put out a missing persons report.

and the email he sent her said," im sorry that i left and said nothing.But i had to live my life."

HOW ******* UP RIGHT?

i say u get on his account and see wasup.

Should I check on my bf's myspace account?

I don't thik I would. Sounds desprate and needy.

Should I check on my bf's myspace account?

Its to late he already had two days to clear the account

Should I check on my bf's myspace account?

NO NO NO NO NO NO!!!! And not only that you should tell him that you didn't look and you would like him to change his password so that you won't know it. It is okay for people to have personel space in a relationship. If you have jealousy or suspicions that are based in facts that you already know, then you shouldn't be in the relationship because you're not mature enough to handle it.

I need guy help?

One of my best friend likes this guy. Not around him (of course) she refers to him as "hers". And she has his myspace, and she talks to him all of the time. And just the other day, we got his phone number and she's probably called him every day. The problem is, she's convinced he likes me. (He's 3 years older than me) People keep telling me "no flirting" but he's my friend!!! So I go up and hug him all the time. And we were, for some reason, talking about guys looking at girl's butts, and he said "I have a butt." And I'm like, "Yes, nice butt." And we pass notes, I'll say I hate you, and he'll be like "You know you love me." And I'll agree. And now she's convinced I like him too! But I'm dating someone, and he couldn't like me, he's fully aware of my age. So what am I supposed to do? My friend is getting jealous.

I need guy help?

aww....but you two sound sooo cute togather. try talking to your friend, and ask her as a friend what you can do to fix everyting up, and have her be happy. tell her how you feel about him too, ask her how she feels about that. good luck. :D

I need guy help?

You are flirting with this guy. I would stop it now and save your friendship.

I need guy help?

first of all you should sit your friend down and talk to her and after that tell him that you are happy with your boyfriend or just start talking about your man in a way that will show him that you arent interested in him in that way.

I need guy help?

She should just get over it. Although sounds like he does like you, these are the things that turn into relationships. I would for the sake of your own relationship turn it down a notch.

I need guy help?

I have had this problem cuz my best friend is a guy. Started when we were in High School and it never stopped. He married the girl he was with, and I married the guy I was with. We now live in different states and at times different countries cuz my husband is in the military and so is my friend. His wife still doesnt trust me and I gave up tring to be a friend to her. He knows I will always be here if he needs me and where to find me. My husband and I both think this is silly, but some girls are just really insecure about themselves. This makes them have serious trust issues and jealous. Because he was such a great friend to me I chose to keep my distance for his happiness. Good luck with this.

Friend annoying me on myspace?

i have a new friend who's very into myspace. alot of my closest friends are very sharp and quick witted, this friend is a guy i met at college, he's a little clingy, and makes immature comments on every single picture in my myspace. he's not quite as bad in person, but he is a little immature. i really don't mean to be a snob about it, but i think he's annoying my other friends. he tried requesting my one close friend, she denyed him twice because she doesn't accept people she doesn't know. i know for a fact she would NOT like him, so when he mentioned it to me, i explained roxy isn't very social. i feel like that should have been enough, but then i see he commented a pic of her tonight saying "he wants to meet her and be her friend and we should all hang out" if she reads this, it will creep her out, and i don't like him looking into all my friends. he also mentioned a comment i left someone MONTHS ago. so he he must read through ALL my comments. how can i ask him to stop this?

Friend annoying me on myspace?

Tell the truth, delete him, make your profile friends only

Friend annoying me on myspace?

If this guy is creeping out your friends, they have the option of blocking him from viewing their page. Also, they can mark their profiles as "private" where only people on their friends list can view their page.

There is als a feature where in order to request an "add" is to enter their email address or their last name. If worse comes to worse...they can always report the user as abusing/harassing MySpace members. Good Luck!

Friend annoying me on myspace?

Ha I'm dealing w/ a similar problem... I think the best way to handle something like that is just telling him in the nicest way possible that he's coming off a little too strong and he should step back a little and just b/c the two of you know each other doesn't mean he has to add every single one of your friends on myspace! If he keeps it up, delete him. :)

GOOD LUCK!

Friend annoying me on myspace?

Those friends suck, don't they? Yeah, they can be fun and a good person, but they're immature and a bit of a stalker... I know what it's like.

Perhaps you could tell him to quit stalking you in a half joking/half serious tone, and he might get the picture.

You and your friends can block him or make your profile private so he can't stalk you and your friends anymore, or just slowly stop talking and hanging out with him until he figures out you guys "lost interest" in each other. Something has to work. It is kind of sad and you might feel bad about it, but he's being pretty strange, and immature people aren't easy to deal with all the time.

Besides, he could end up literally stalking you. That kind of happened to me, and boy was it awful.

Or have your friends just leave the friend request alone. Don't approve or deny it. That always worked for me.

Friend annoying me on myspace?

Hi,,

get a hold of me i'll take care of this for you,,all i need is his IM name,,promis you wont hear from him again,,

Told this guy to stop contacting me, he responds by threatening?

I'm not going to tell the whole story BUT here is the "jist"

I told this guy to stop contacting me.

I would block him from myspace, 2 days later he would make a new myspace from another email address, try and add me, and send me numerous emails. He would call me constantly, all day long.

NOTE: He's 30 and i'm in my 20's, engaged to be married.

He knows that my fiance smokes cannabis .. i also do once in awhile (please save the lectures).

I tell him to stop contacting me and he responds with this:

"Fine b#$ch have it your way. Just to let you know i have family in law enforcement, in the city you live in, i've contacted him and your house has been marked as a drug house since i know you guys probably have cannabis on you."

Wow we smoke every once in awhile, big deal .. 1,000's of people do in the city i live in.

So is he just being completely immature?

Even if he does have family in law enforcement .. what are the chances that they would actually pursue this.....

Told this guy to stop contacting me, he responds by threatening?

Well First yes Change your information and try to shake him first. How did he get your phone number? If after changing your information he continues to contact you. Save every email, and threat, Start you a file, and REPORT HIM. Stop accepting new firends on Myspace until this problem is gone. Report him yes. I hope I dont need to say, when you report him don't be HIGH when you do it. They have to have just cause to search your house. They also need a warrant. I would not worry about that yet i would make sure if for some reason they did. They would find nothing. So smoke up yo cannibis. Clear up yo cataract. Tell your boyfriend what is going on. Make sure you have nothing to hide. I am not sure if this is all the story or not. But either way, he would not have your phone number if you did not provide it to him some kind of way. If all else fails contact me back. Your not saying what you need to say to make him stop contacting you. CALL HIS BLUFF. I am sure at some point you showed him your intimadated by him. It would make his day to know your on here with this question. Stop satisfying him. Stand up to him. Why does he know your address to report you. Don't take his threats litely. Be realistic. How would he have all this information on you unless you gave it to him. %26amp; if you didn't and it is not on your profile. THEN HE IS BLUFFING YOU. Otherwise, change it. Be very careful about what you put on your myspace. People make themselves stalkable. Just understand there is no neighborhood watch on the internet. You neighbors could be psycho killers. Make sure your information is not all true. ON your Yahoo, myspace, and other online communities. Good Luck.

Told this guy to stop contacting me, he responds by threatening?

He sounds like a moron, report him as a stalker.

Told this guy to stop contacting me, he responds by threatening?

Can he prove you have pot? No. Get rid of all of it if you want, but I doubt there is anything he could do. To claim that someone once smoked pot is not enough reason to hurt them. But if law enforcement ever gets involved, a break from cannabis would be advisable. Store it at a friends house and wait until it's out of your urine and such.

Report HIM to the cops. If it gets to be a a huge problem, or if he doesn't stop with the threats, file a restraining order against him for yourself and get your fiance to do the same. Save every violent "your man had better watch out" threat you get for evidence.

Told this guy to stop contacting me, he responds by threatening?

Go to the police and explain some of the details and have them give you an restraining order against him because he is no good.

Told this guy to stop contacting me, he responds by threatening?

Go to the police and tell them your story. Show them the e-mail and how he has been threatening you and your boyfriend.

Told this guy to stop contacting me, he responds by threatening?

Save yourself all the hassle and file a restraining order. You've gotta fight fire with fire sometimes. Call his bluff and when he finds out you're pressing charges, you may never hear from him again.

As for his family in law enforcement, they took and oath to "protect and serve." So make sure that they do.

Told this guy to stop contacting me, he responds by threatening?

It would probably be a good idea to quit smoking pot. Calling it cannabis doesnt make it any better. Then go to court and get a restraining order. Also file a harassment charge on him. Because he used the internet (an electronic device) in many areas it counts as a aggravating factor and will bump it up from a violation to a misdemeanor. Make sure you save what you've been getting and call the police. Just make sure you get rid of all your dope before hand, because on more than one occasion the victim that calls gets arrested for drugs.

Told this guy to stop contacting me, he responds by threatening?

The guy obviously has some problems and I seriously doubt that any Law Enforcement Officer with an IQ higher than room temperature is going to risk his career by deliberately targeting someone for this guy. Report him to your local cops as a stalker and make his life miserable. So what if you smoke pot? It's not the smartest thing to do but it doesn't take away your civil rights either. I don't know which State you're in but in nEw York, what he's doing would be considered Aggrivated Harassment and that's a Class A Misdemeanor punishable by up to a year in the slammer. Stick it to him.

Told this guy to stop contacting me, he responds by threatening?

What I would do is conttact myspace server and coplaint about him. Even if he changes his profile, it is easy to detect the person harrasing you by thier e-mail and personal info they gave out to sign up. I believe they can have that individual banned from myspace. Good luck.

Told this guy to stop contacting me, he responds by threatening?

Very simple answer. Go to your local police department, omit the cannabis part, and tell them the rest of the story. They will visit the guy and require that he sign a document ordering him to cease contact with you. After that, if he does contact you, you will have the option of swearing out a protection order.

The nuclear option for you is to tell the police if you feel that he is a direct danger to you or your loved ones. That will mean working through the court system.

When there's a man threatening a woman, the police aren't going to listen to his stories about cannabis- that is a separate issue, and technically, the police CAN NOT consider anything other than your safety in matters of harassment. Even so, don't have any on or around you while this is happening. Good luck.

Told this guy to stop contacting me, he responds by threatening?

first of all he is a stalker and you should report it to myspace first off. what you could do is change your settings for asking to be a friend to only people you know. now for his threating you that he has a brother in your town in the law. well tell a lawyer that you are been threatened by this guy. that he knows some cop are something and see what your lawyer says. i to have a myspace page myself and well i had some threaten me on it and had a friend who had one that was all nice and friendly to her. somehow got onto her computer hacked into it and stole some of her private photos and video's so make sure you have a real good system that stops hackers and make sure its up to date.

Told this guy to stop contacting me, he responds by threatening?

First get rid of the weed, next get help for the substance abuse problem, then report this creep for stalking you, and if he report you to his family member and they come to your home then, you hve grounds to get the family member for harressing you as well, because they got the information from they stalker relative. good luck.

Told this guy to stop contacting me, he responds by threatening?

law enforcement is great at 'spatial intelligence' in which they can spy in your house via satellite. This also entails thought/mind control techniques if you per chance get an internal transmitter in you............meaning that they can read your mind and harass you. Watch your water and food supplies. I make a policy of boiling all tap water and drinking bottled water. Sure, Im crazy!

I need guy help?

One of my best friend likes this guy. Not around him (of course) she refers to him as "hers". And she has his myspace, and she talks to him all of the time. And just the other day, we got his phone number and she's probably called him every day. The problem is, she's convinced he likes me. (He's 3 years older than me) People keep telling me "no flirting" but he's my friend!!! So I go up and hug him all the time. And we were, for some reason, talking about guys looking at girl's butts, and he said "I have a butt." And I'm like, "Yes, nice butt." And we pass notes, I'll say I hate you, and he'll be like "You know you love me." And I'll agree. And now she's convinced I like him too! But I'm dating someone, and he couldn't like me, he's fully aware of my age. So what am I supposed to do? My friend is getting jealous.

I need guy help?

aww....but you two sound sooo cute togather. try talking to your friend, and ask her as a friend what you can do to fix everyting up, and have her be happy. tell her how you feel about him too, ask her how she feels about that. good luck. :D

I need guy help?

You are flirting with this guy. I would stop it now and save your friendship.

I need guy help?

first of all you should sit your friend down and talk to her and after that tell him that you are happy with your boyfriend or just start talking about your man in a way that will show him that you arent interested in him in that way.

I need guy help?

She should just get over it. Although sounds like he does like you, these are the things that turn into relationships. I would for the sake of your own relationship turn it down a notch.

I need guy help?

I have had this problem cuz my best friend is a guy. Started when we were in High School and it never stopped. He married the girl he was with, and I married the guy I was with. We now live in different states and at times different countries cuz my husband is in the military and so is my friend. His wife still doesnt trust me and I gave up tring to be a friend to her. He knows I will always be here if he needs me and where to find me. My husband and I both think this is silly, but some girls are just really insecure about themselves. This makes them have serious trust issues and jealous. Because he was such a great friend to me I chose to keep my distance for his happiness. Good luck with this.

Mixed signals from the guy i like?

ok so i work with this guy who im really starting to like and he seemed to be likeing me to up until recently. we were texting and writing eachother on myspace almost everyday up until like a week ago. we would flirt at work to but then all of a sudden its like i had to make all the effort and he just stopped trying i geuss. were supposed to hang out and make some music together cause were both musicians but it just keeps getting blown off its starting to really piss me off because everytime i actully really like a guy they just seem to treat me like crap and give me the run around and when i dont so much like the guy they wont seem to leave me alone. i would really aprriaciate some good adivice im really sick of being alone and always getting my hopes up on a guy who doesnt really care. what do you think all of a sudden changed this guys mind?

Mixed signals from the guy i like?

That's always the way it is. The guy that totally drives you wild is the one that's impossible to get and the one that you'd rather clean than hang out with is crazy for you. Guys can be so hard to read sometimes, but the one thing I've found is that guys who give mixed signals are trouble. It does really suck when you find a guy and think "he could be the one" and then get crushed when you find out that he couldn't care less about you. Being alone isn't always bad though. Being alone is better than being with someone that isn't right for you, that you'll just end up breaking up with anyway. Enjoy being single and free and know that when you meet a worthy guy you can date him because you've been bettering yourself in the meantime. Your exact situation happened to me recently. I was head over heels for him, and everything was going great, and then he just stopped calling completely. It was so abrupt, and completely caught me off guard. I found out from an outside source that he had a gf at the time. I'm not saying that's necessarily the case with this guy, but it could be. If he doesn't have a gf, then he might have just gotten interested in someone else. It sounds like he's pulling away if things keep getting pushed back. Another thing that's easier said than done is, just be friends with a guy before you date him. You learn so much more about someone's true personality when they're not trying to impress you. That way, it's easier to weed out the bad ones before you let yourself get head over heels for them. I hope that you find out either way and best of luck!

Mixed signals from the guy i like?

Wow this is exactly my situation but as a guy, I know it sucks and i am pissed off beyond all belief but i am really sorry i can't give you advice on this one

Friend annoying me on myspace?

i have a new friend who's very into myspace. alot of my closest friends are very sharp and quick witted, this friend is a guy i met at college, he's a little clingy, and makes immature comments on every single picture in my myspace. he's not quite as bad in person, but he is a little immature. i really don't mean to be a snob about it, but i think he's annoying my other friends. he tried requesting my one close friend, she denyed him twice because she doesn't accept people she doesn't know. i know for a fact she would NOT like him, so when he mentioned it to me, i explained roxy isn't very social. i feel like that should have been enough, but then i see he commented a pic of her tonight saying "he wants to meet her and be her friend and we should all hang out" if she reads this, it will creep her out, and i don't like him looking into all my friends. he also mentioned a comment i left someone MONTHS ago. so he he must read through ALL my comments. how can i ask him to stop this?

Friend annoying me on myspace?

Tell the truth, delete him, make your profile friends only

Friend annoying me on myspace?

If this guy is creeping out your friends, they have the option of blocking him from viewing their page. Also, they can mark their profiles as "private" where only people on their friends list can view their page.

There is als a feature where in order to request an "add" is to enter their email address or their last name. If worse comes to worse...they can always report the user as abusing/harassing MySpace members. Good Luck!

Friend annoying me on myspace?

Ha I'm dealing w/ a similar problem... I think the best way to handle something like that is just telling him in the nicest way possible that he's coming off a little too strong and he should step back a little and just b/c the two of you know each other doesn't mean he has to add every single one of your friends on myspace! If he keeps it up, delete him. :)

GOOD LUCK!

Friend annoying me on myspace?

Those friends suck, don't they? Yeah, they can be fun and a good person, but they're immature and a bit of a stalker... I know what it's like.

Perhaps you could tell him to quit stalking you in a half joking/half serious tone, and he might get the picture.

You and your friends can block him or make your profile private so he can't stalk you and your friends anymore, or just slowly stop talking and hanging out with him until he figures out you guys "lost interest" in each other. Something has to work. It is kind of sad and you might feel bad about it, but he's being pretty strange, and immature people aren't easy to deal with all the time.

Besides, he could end up literally stalking you. That kind of happened to me, and boy was it awful.

Or have your friends just leave the friend request alone. Don't approve or deny it. That always worked for me.

Friend annoying me on myspace?

Hi,,

get a hold of me i'll take care of this for you,,all i need is his IM name,,promis you wont hear from him again,,