He cheated on MYSPACE...should I leave hiM?!?

My boyfriend is the sweetest guy I've ever met. BEen 2gether for about 4 yrs. He'd do anything and everything for me. Everyone tells me he loves me more than he loves himself. 4 months ago I logged onto his myspace and found that he's been flirting with girls on there. GEttin their aim n stuff. Approached him bout it the same day. He says that's as far as it went. He never spoke to them past myspace. HE's neva done anythin 2 hurt me beside this. He said it boosted his confidence to get the girls to talk to him but that he planned to stop and was kinda addicted. I didn't talk to him for a while but we're back 2getha now n i don't know if this is gonna work out. I love him to death but dont know if i can trust him again. I'm always worried bout wat he's doin now. He erased his page and even all the numbers out his cell phone. Besides that he's always been the perfect boyfriend...PLEASE HELP ME! Should I believe him? Is he worth da stress?

He cheated on MYSPACE...should I leave hiM?!?

What are you going to do when he finds a job and there are girls at his workplace?

Best thing: accept what he said and see what happens in the future. He may have been asking those girls how to best keep you happy ... and to keep him from falling out of your good graces.

In other words, give him some time to prove himself ... if you really have feelings for him.

He cheated on MYSPACE...should I leave hiM?!?

girl.. u just being jealous...

4 years huh?...

myspace is place to have friends... im 100% sure that hes not serious with those girl....

he just chattin wiff em..... like all ppl do... but trust me... he still love u...

He cheated on MYSPACE...should I leave hiM?!?

Stop being so petty.

He cheated on MYSPACE...should I leave hiM?!?

If he deleted everything, you should be safe, but catch him again, and he's done.

He cheated on MYSPACE...should I leave hiM?!?

We've all been there. On-line flirting is addictive.

Give him a pass, but if he does it again, press the eject button.

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He cheated on MYSPACE...should I leave hiM?!?

it was just on the innternet.

He cheated on MYSPACE...should I leave hiM?!?

If he did it once, he'll most likely do it again....Believe me, I know.

He cheated on MYSPACE...should I leave hiM?!?

dont leave him ok look no guy is perfect and just cuz he was talking to them doesntmean anything if he deleted the page and the numbers he is truly srry!

He cheated on MYSPACE...should I leave hiM?!?

yes, he is. come on, forgive him, that was only MYSPACE, you love him to death and he loves you to death, so you re made for each other. dont dump him, i guess you dont want to throw away a 4 year relationship. everyone makes mistakes, so does he. forgive him and cuddle

He cheated on MYSPACE...should I leave hiM?!?

Why did he want to talk to those girls on myspace for confidence thats lame. How do you know he didnt go any further? He had those girl numbers in his phone thats messed up.. Its gonna be hard for you to forget this because your always gonna wonder... You should really think twice about being with him.

He cheated on MYSPACE...should I leave hiM?!?

yes i would give him the benefit of the doubt if what you said is true about how he feels. it is just myspace. and myspace is a known drama starter. if thats all it was is online, just forgive him. everyone is not innocent and damn sure not perfect.

i think everyone goes through that phase but i am sure he loves you alot. i wouldnt give up on him, it doesnt sound all that serious what he did. everyone flirts once in awhile regardless of what they say. maybe he deleted his myspace because he didnt want it causing more probs and he deleted the numbers because he didnt want you getting angry.

He cheated on MYSPACE...should I leave hiM?!?

sounds like he loves u and doesnt want to lose u so he deleted everything to show u his friends dont come before u. if u catch him doing it again then he may not change.but for now try to let it go and stay with ur man.

He cheated on MYSPACE...should I leave hiM?!?

He's not cheating on you...but I understand how you feel.It's not right for him to do that.

If he's deleted all of them though and stops talking to them then I think things will get better.

He cheated on MYSPACE...should I leave hiM?!?

have you ever considered that he needed other girls to give him a confidence boost because you weren't? let him know that you love him as much as he loves you

He cheated on MYSPACE...should I leave hiM?!?

Give him the, "It's not you, it's me." breakup explanation. If someone truly cared for you, they would not hurt you like this. You're better off to dump him. Do it.

Believe me, he's NOT worth the pain and stress.

And I don't even know him!

But you probably already know this is for the best.

He cheated on MYSPACE...should I leave hiM?!?

i am on the same problem rite now its just my girl lies to me over and over about flirting with guys on myspace and on the hone ,i am gioing to call it over today later on when she wakes up.........................she is such a *****

He cheated on MYSPACE...should I leave hiM?!?

Sounds like you may be a little guilty of the same thing...

From the way you spell in chat language it looks like you do plenty of chatting yourself. How many times have you flirted with someone in chat?

It's all just play time. Now if he actually meets them irl and does things with them without you present and approving... then he's cheating.

He cheated on MYSPACE...should I leave hiM?!?

He's just having fun. Myspace shouldn't get you down. For all he knows he's talking to 40 year old men. :P Just kidding...

But yeah I think he didn't do anything that extreme for you to not be together. 4 years is a lot to throw away for a dumb website, dontcha think?

He cheated on MYSPACE...should I leave hiM?!?

Online chat rooms are a way to have one's ego stroked with no strings attached. Give it time. Give him the benefit of the doubt. Tell him you appreciate him giving up his addiction for you. He must really love you. Addiction of any kind is hard to break.

He cheated on MYSPACE...should I leave hiM?!?

C'mon, give him some space. Firstly, speaking with other girls doesn't mean that your bf is hitting on other girls at the same time. Much less, it's only on MySpace. Furthermore, he already deleted all the numbers on his cell phone. From what i see, he'd do anythign for you. And you just seem insecure. You afraid he'll go for other girls instead of you. I understand your feeling cuz i feel the same way sometimes. But you'll just have to tell yourself not to be too sensitive with these issues. You guys have been togetehr for 4 years!? If he'd like to hit on other girls, he would have done that earlier, i bet.

In a healthy relationship, you'll just have to trust each other. You talk to other guys too don't you. But im sure you don't have bad intentions. So just the same way, your bf might just be, as he said, boosting his confidence on myspace, that's all. Moreover, he's erased his page already! FOR YOU! you said you love his to death. Maybe you do, and i think you wont be ready to give up this relationship that easily.

I suggest, talk to your bf about this and tell him you dont' wanna lose him and how much you love him. And ask him to make a commitment that if you guys continue, then he shouldn't be flirting with other girls anymore. If he doesnt agree, maybe he's just not worth it. It's better to get 4 years of experience than many more years of suffering later on in life if he still continues to do it.

Hope i helped and all the best! :)

He cheated on MYSPACE...should I leave hiM?!?

Hmm... here's a story for you.

The guy I used to date (we met on Myspace) was the perfect boyfriend. He was very polite, supportive, funny, down to eath, "real" and all. Then I figured out he was married! His wife didn't know anything about me, later I found out he was also a very good husband to his wife.

Basically what I'm trying to say, sometimes men are incredible friends and "lovers" but not loyal (of course it erases all the good things they do in a relationship). Your boyfriend may be that kind of guy. Breaking up over something like that would be a little too much, but I guess his actions show you need to be a detective for a little while.

He cheated on MYSPACE...should I leave hiM?!?

Well listen, if he did this, doesn't sound like he is the perfect guy. and why does he even have other women numbers.Just remember you think he has be faithful and maybe he as, but from my own experience, forgive but never forget. ONce you forget then that is when he will hurt you. But It doesn't sound like the perfect bf. don't stress and try to trust but never forget. remember once a cheat, always a cheat.

He cheated on MYSPACE...should I leave hiM?!?

i'm sure he regrets it now - you opened his eyes up to his mistake - he will learn from it. My question is - why did he delete his phone numbers from his cell phone? What numbers - phone numbers?? That tells me that he was talking to somebody - but who????

ask him that question.

and, then decide.

4 yrs is a long time - give him another chance...

He cheated on MYSPACE...should I leave hiM?!?

DUMP HIM!!!!! IF HE CHEATED DUMP HIM !!!! HE IS NOT WORTH IT!!!!