My boyfriend is hiding a secret thru myspace!?!?

Well...i know my boyfriend personally. and I found out about his other two myspaces....and one myspace is a "prep" site, the one that I'm on is his "goth" site, and the other one is a "gay" site, all with the similiar info and interests, except on the gay site it has stuff supporting gay pride, and "looking for a boyfriend" but he didn't update it...but why have 3 myspaces? what would he have to hide from me? and why would he have "straight" on the other two pages, and gay on this other one...i mean he kisses me, and talks just like a straight guy does, he has no "gay tendencies" and i'm really confused. Is he just faking for attention online. is he a fake or just wanting to get attention. I mean he's dating me, he can't be gay!! We kiss and everything, and I know myspace is just the "internet" but still....its hiding something, and I don't know if I should stay with him. Should I leave him just because of him hiding all this from me? Should I confront him? etc

My boyfriend is hiding a secret thru myspace!?!?

It seems like he's doing it for attention, but he may also have a gay side to him, it's very hard to tell a person through my space, esp. since the guy has three DIFFERENT sites, and they are all different preferences or whatever, it mostly seems like he's doing it all for the attention. Try confronting him about it, and if he gets all mad or secretive acting, then that's when you should be suspicious, relationships should be based on trust and honesty and it seems like he's keeping an aweful lot from you. DAMN MY SPACE does nothing but ruin relationships!

My boyfriend is hiding a secret thru myspace!?!?

maybe he's bi..?

or in denial..

My boyfriend is hiding a secret thru myspace!?!?

They do it because its funny.

you seem young. get over it.

Kids do it all teh time. making myspaces to pretend to be someone else. cept maybe your bf has some issues.

My boyfriend is hiding a secret thru myspace!?!?

two words: COVER UP. that is what you could be. or maybe he is a fake. i myself have two myspaces, one that everyone knows and one no one knows. so i can say what i REALLY want, all that private stuff that i don't want anyone knowing.

My boyfriend is hiding a secret thru myspace!?!?

there are lots of people who have several myspaces. for example, my sister in law has a second myspace that she has a completely different friends list for, and that's where she posts things that she doesn't want everyone to know about, like blogs bitching about her husband and whatnot.

you should have a long talk with your boyfriend about this, though. he could have curiosities about his sexuality that he may not feel comfortable discussing with you. or it could just be an alter ego.

My boyfriend is hiding a secret thru myspace!?!?

WOW! there are plenty of guys out here that are on the ''down low'' which means they live double lives, i have 2 gay friends that look so straight on the outside but are indeed gay, believe you wouldn't think that they were looking at them or talking to them ... my point is yes i believe you should confront him and see what his reaction is... there's a reason that he has 3 different myspace page... you better check into it hon.

take care

My boyfriend is hiding a secret thru myspace!?!?

you need to sit him down and talk to him and tell him to stop bullshiting you

My boyfriend is hiding a secret thru myspace!?!?

well he might be doin it to be funny or hes bi. what you should do is talk to him about iit and ask whats up

My boyfriend is hiding a secret thru myspace!?!?

Depending on your age...which you seem young...he very well could be just doing it for attention. At young ages kids do all sorts of stuff for attention...I'm sure you have. Ask him about it...that's the best you can do. Show him while he is sitting next to you what you found, that way he can't deny it. If he tries to give you the run around and you still feel like you can't trust him, leave him. Trust is the biggest thing in a relationship. If that's gone, than you have nothing.

My boyfriend is hiding a secret thru myspace!?!?

There are a few reasons why he'd have the gay site.

1. He's gay and he's hiding the fact that he is gay.

Many gay men will stay in a hetro relationship because it's safe, no one would suspect that he was gay because he was with you. In fact many men that are married and figure out that they are gay, want to stay in the marriage because it's secure. Even if he has come out to his wife already.

2. He's bi and is hiding it from you.

or

3. He's just using the gay myspace account to attract gays to bash them. If that's the case then he is gay but can't come to terms with it so he lashes out on gay people so no one would think he was gay or he's releasing his rage because he's afraid of his feelings.

He could just be curious or hasn't come to terms with his feelings or sexuality.

I'd say to you to only have safe sex and to find out as much as you can about what he's up to.

Sneaking around isn't great, but until you want to confront him on it, you might have to.

A good way to figure it out is to make a gay male site of your own and contact him through it, you might find out what he's really up to.

good luck