Monday, December 28, 2009

Is the shy guy thing a disguise? GUYS only please?

Shy guys answer only please?!



So I have this really close guy friend who's generally a really sweet person unless around someone he truly hates which makes sense.



Anyways, he's suuuuperrr shy with me in person. Like he'd get scared to hold a convo. In History we did this thing in front of the class and he was supposed to pass the mic to me and he totally dropped it...he'll compliment me in person and be really nice to my friends, even the ones he's never met before.



We're really good friends so I guess that's good but it seems like he wants more...the compliments have been more genuine, he's been more sweet and asked me for a hug the last day of school...he's always teasing me and leaving these messages for me to decode on Myspace. We don't live near each other so Myspace is one of our main ways of talking since school isn't for awhile. How can I tell online that he's into me instead of it just being friendship?



Is the shy guy thing a disguise? GUYS only please?

I think you're in high school and a LOT of guys are shy in high school when it comes to women. Keep in mind a lot of guys at that poitn haven't asked a girl out and they get really nervous and have fear of rejection, even if they think you like them.



How to get past the shyness? Keep it simple. Ask him to a movie or to do something where the two of you will hang out (mini golf, cafe).



Is the shy guy thing a disguise? GUYS only please?

To tell you the truth us "nice guys" are just like any other guys out there. We "nice guys" can be very good looking if you find the right guy. Our only problem with the "player" is that we are really shy, whereas the "player" is not. This is the main difference that I can point out. We "nice guy" are as every bit athletic as everyone else(at least I know I am, I play basketball very well) and we are smarter too because we have higher standards and achieve more in school than the regular guys. So yes, you can say that the shy guy thing is really a disguise because deep down inside, you don't know us until you date one of us and get to know us better. We can be sick minded too (watch porno, and do weird guys things for no apparent reason, etc...) and have urges just like the rest of the guys. Our only flaw is that we are shy around hot/pretty girls. Let me give you an example of myself; some of my friends think that since I'm a "nice guy" that I'm not athletic or anything like that, but once I asked them to play basketball with me, I totally destroyed them. I'm also smarter than most of them. The nice guy in us is like how you discribed it, a "disguise" because deep down inside we're the same as the other guys if you can find us. So the next time you see a "nice guy" walking around, like the saying goes, "don't judge a book by it's cover" because you never know just how strong, athletic, intelligent, charming, loving, caring, nice, kind, respectful, honest he is until you go out on a date with him and find out who he really is. There are secrets in all of us nice guys and we're more than meets the eye, LOL!...

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