I have been in a serious relationship for 1 year and 8 months now, we have been living together for 1 year and 5 months out of this time, I'm 22 and she is 20. I found out my fiancee has a myspace page since December 2006 and was angry and surprised by the fact that she never mentioned about it and more so because she had posted up pictures of herself in bra and panties in our bedroom with guy comments. I have demanded that she either add me as a friend so that I may view her profile(its private) periodically or that she delete the profile. She deleted it, but she has made another without me knowing the next month. She claims that she needs her privacy, that her page was intended for family, %26amp; that I should not be so insecure. I found this funny since she added her friends from middle and high school and from the guy comments. I asked her how could she add friends and not her fiance? She rather delete the page than let me view it. What do you guys make of it? Please help me sincerely.
Fiancee not adding me on Myspace, hiding something?
U 2 ARE NOT MADE FOR EACHOTHER
Fiancee not adding me on Myspace, hiding something?
Girl has issues, laddie.
Dump her and find one that doesn't have so many attention seeking behaviors.
Seriously.
Fiancee not adding me on Myspace, hiding something?
i think you have a point, but i also think you are pushing it a little bit. you cant expect her to not be pretty/seductive just because shes with you, right? i think becoming myspace friends should be a given.. but not so you can stalk her
Fiancee not adding me on Myspace, hiding something?
Myspace is just a webpage.....maybe it is no big deal that she won't add you. However, I think that its shady. Especially since you deleted her first profile and then made another. And the whole bra and panty pictures???? I don't know if that's appropriate! I think that you have a right to be angry. She does need to either add you or delete it. Maybe you need to reconsider your relationship with her, 20 and 22 are very young to be engaged. Good Luck
Fiancee not adding me on Myspace, hiding something?
Maybe your fiance is one of those people who urge need to have attention at all time and maybe that is her way. I dont think you should really worry about it. Everyone has to keep their own secrets. If you bug her she might just back away from things all together. Give her her space man. You live with her already. When she's ready to show you, she wil. Be patient.
Fiancee not adding me on Myspace, hiding something?
it sounds very suspicious, I think yes she is hiding something. if it is a family page, she shouldn't post pictures of herself in a bra and panties. I would have her sit down with you and show you her page...if she won't and she still won't add you as a friend.Sit her down for a serious talk, you need trust in your relationship
Fiancee not adding me on Myspace, hiding something?
Myspace is not that crucial you're an adult go on with your life myspace doesn't determine that your relationship is legit
Fiancee not adding me on Myspace, hiding something?
=DEFINATLY
i would tye her up %26amp; make her tell you her password %26amp; if she thinks otherwise then
spray her in the face with a water bottle....
LOVINGLY :]
Fiancee not adding me on Myspace, hiding something?
Yeah I'd say thats a little strange, that she won't let you see her Myspace page. Haha just hack into it. jk. I dunno dude sounds to me like shes hiding something and why would she be putting pictures of her in her bra and panties up for her family? Thats the part that boggles my mind. You two need to talk about this.
Fiancee not adding me on Myspace, hiding something?
it sounds to me like she is hiding something and you need to get this straight before u get married or you may have some very serious problems down the line....u also said that she posted pics of herself in her bra and panties on myspace and guys were commenting on them...if her profile is set to private how were these guys able to see them and make comments...something is not right with her whole story.....trust your gut feeling...if it quacks like a duck it it is usually a duck....
Fiancee not adding me on Myspace, hiding something?
wow that is a hard one! honestly this you need to sit down and talk to her about. if she has problems communicating with you then seriously this relationship cannot go anywhere. if she continually lies to you, then you this relationship has to end. maybe she is hiding something from you but constant pressuring her will not help the situation. give her space to tell you and if after a month or two she doesnt tell you and continues to hide around and sneek around, im sorry but this relationship may be doomed!
Fiancee not adding me on Myspace, hiding something?
i think its really funny how she wont even add you as a friend..husband and i both have an account he has my info so he can log on to my account (if he ever wanted to)and i have all of his info if i ever feel the need to log onto his account.(the passwords are both right i had to log on to his to add a friend for him)this is a nice way for us to send each other nice (or sexy)comments during the day just to let each other know we are thinking about the other.we also do the text messages.and bra and panties thats just not right for her to have up if you are her fiancee..it shows me she one dosent have respect of herself or any of you either to have those kind of pics up like that its wrong in my eyes she's hidding something from you for sure...when u have nothing to hide you let the other one in good luck
Fiancee not adding me on Myspace, hiding something?
if shes doing all that then chances shes hiding somethig!! if its space she wants then i would say go get it some where else !! thats coming from a woman thats been down and around the block. i do understand space. what would she do if she found out you where hiding something from her and wouldnt let her in when she found out. something to think about heck you might even try that therory out and see what happens when the shoe is one the other foot if you understand what im saying
Fiancee not adding me on Myspace, hiding something?
Oh my God, immediately reduce her to friends status if she doesn't want you to see her adultery. She's not done "testing the waters"
Fiancee not adding me on Myspace, hiding something?
I would DEFINITELY DUMP HER A**.SHE isn't faithful now %26amp; you want to marry her!WAKE UP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Fiancee not adding me on Myspace, hiding something?
You need to be careful with this kind of girl. If you guys are fighting a lot before your wedding, that can have some doubts. I am with you on this one all the way man, you have every right to be mad if she is posting picture of herself half naked! and by not adding you she makes it sound as if she is embarrased by you. Look there is only 2 things you can do. First...You talk with her, tell her in a calm voice that you do not like what she is doing and that this is wrong. If she cares about you, she will stop! she needs to grow up and be doing things behind someones back, that is high school stuff and not relationship materal. Your second choice is to take a step back, and what I mean by that is don't break up with her completely, but postpone your wedding until you feel like you know and trust her enough. Trust me! you don't want to get married feeling like you made a mistake, that kind of stuff can kill a man! It is better to remain single than to be with a person that you were not supposed to be with. Now as my personal opinion I would have nothing to do with her for a while because if she is doing this, this is what I call "perfect breeding grounds for cheating" you need to decide and don't listen to "follow your heart" crap just pray about it and the Lord will give you the way. I hope I helped! Good luck!
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