My girlfriend is checking her ex boyfriends myspace page constantly - Should I be concerned?

I'm on my girlfriend's computer all of the time and sometimes check the history of recently viewed webpages and consistently find that she is checking one of her ex-boyfriends myspace page pretty much once a week. Her ex has a girlfriend and she checks her myspace page each time too.

I have talked to her about this guy a few times before and she says she doesn't talk to him anymore and that she is completely over him. Yet I had to ask her to delete him from her buddy list, where he magically appeared back on about a week later and she doesn't like to talk about her relationship with him. Whereas, she is ok talking about her other ex's and she is not always checking their myspace pages. So why is she checking his myspace all the time? I haven't told her that I know she is checking his page all the time yet, what do I do? Should I be concerned?

My girlfriend is checking her ex boyfriends myspace page constantly - Should I be concerned?

Obviously she still has an interest in her old boyfriend since she checks out his web page on a regular basis. Since she still has an interest in her former boyfriend, she's not ready to move on yet and may even be in a state of denial about it. It's also possible that she is inadvertently using you as an emotional crutch. Although it's not wrong to have a hard time getting over a relationship, it's very unfair to you.

In short, my friend, I advise that you don't get too serious about this girl and start looking around for someone else. Good luck!

My girlfriend is checking her ex boyfriends myspace page constantly - Should I be concerned?

dump her

My girlfriend is checking her ex boyfriends myspace page constantly - Should I be concerned?

yes....talk to her...

My girlfriend is checking her ex boyfriends myspace page constantly - Should I be concerned?

Dump her *** before she dumps you ?

My girlfriend is checking her ex boyfriends myspace page constantly - Should I be concerned?

she needs to stop so she can devote all her self to u.

My girlfriend is checking her ex boyfriends myspace page constantly - Should I be concerned?

YES!

My girlfriend is checking her ex boyfriends myspace page constantly - Should I be concerned?

She is obviously not past him yet. Be careful how close you get to this girl. It sounds to me like you are the good for now guy.

My girlfriend is checking her ex boyfriends myspace page constantly - Should I be concerned?

She wants to see what he is up to and may still like him...................

My girlfriend is checking her ex boyfriends myspace page constantly - Should I be concerned?

For a start stop checking up on her computer that shows you don't trust her and then again maybe she does it cos she knows you look at it and she wants to make you jealous which by the sound of it it has done so

My girlfriend is checking her ex boyfriends myspace page constantly - Should I be concerned?

I would be VERY concerned...Something is going on and you should talk to her NOW.

My girlfriend is checking her ex boyfriends myspace page constantly - Should I be concerned?

First of all there are obviously trust issues with the two of you and that isn't a good sign. I would recommend asking her about it - then you should consider letting it go and not checking on her computer. Sometimes when we "snoop" we find things that we would rather not know about. Good Luck.

My girlfriend is checking her ex boyfriends myspace page constantly - Should I be concerned?

Sorry friend but she has not broken those bonds with him yet. Though you may be gettin it on so to speak, you could be just the holdover until he and her can reconnect. She is obviously not ready to let go of him yet and until she is, there is not much you can do. I wouldn't go out and buy her a diamond just yet.

My girlfriend is checking her ex boyfriends myspace page constantly - Should I be concerned?

Yes you should be concerned.

she is obviously not over him and probably still has feelings for him. Or worse, she could be still seeing him. From what I have experienced, those that are quiet are hiding things. She is keeping something from you. Best to find out what it is, sooner rather than later.

Talk to her about it, asking her what she thinks about him right now, and if she still has feelings for him right now. Maybe give her an ultimatum. If she is still pining for another guy, maybe suggest that you see other people, and see how she takes that. If she objects, then tell her that if she cannot devote herself to you, then to be fair, you cannot devote yourself to her.

Unless she changes.

Sometimes people need a bite from reality to wake up. If she doesn't change, then is it really worth your time staying with her?

My girlfriend is checking her ex boyfriends myspace page constantly - Should I be concerned?

ya you should, coz i think she still loves him and soon they will work things out and shge will leave u 4 him. may b they are jus cheking each other. do you trust your girl friend

My girlfriend is checking her ex boyfriends myspace page constantly - Should I be concerned?

Yes you should be concerned. If she's still checking his page then I can guarantee you that she still cares about him very much. Oh and the fact that she's checking the page of his current girlfriend is an even bigger problem. You need to seriously talk to her about this because its an indication of an even bigger problem. She's not over her ex.

My girlfriend is checking her ex boyfriends myspace page constantly - Should I be concerned?

I WOULD BE CONCERNED THAT SHE INTERS TED IN

TALKING TO THE EX. AND THAT WOULD BOTHER ME

BUT WHAT WOULD BOTHER ME MORE IS THAT SHE

KNOW HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT THIS AND HAS NOT

STOP THIS. IT WOULD BE TIME TO LET HER KNOW

HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT THIS OR TIME TO GET A

NEW GIRLFRIEND.THIS MAY BE NOT TRUSTWORTHY.

My girlfriend is checking her ex boyfriends myspace page constantly - Should I be concerned?

Maybe she's just nosy.... is she a curious person? Cuz I am... and I've done that.... and I have NO feelings for any ex.... (in fact, I hate him, and maybe that's why I look... "keep your friends close, keep your enemies closer" kind of thing)....

The fact that she doesn't want to talk about him with you is kinda concerning... Either it was bad and she doesn't want to remember it, or she's still pining over him. How long ago did they break up? Maybe she's not over him 100% yet (she might still like him, or she might still hold resentment towards him)... Talk to her and find out.

My girlfriend is checking her ex boyfriends myspace page constantly - Should I be concerned?

Maybe the reason that she checks his page frequently is because she's not completely over him. THings like this happen. You should just give her some time. And maybe a reason that she's checking his girlfriend's is because she may be jealous of her. And it seems like she's jsut trying to get info. on what they're doing...maybe feeding her jealously.

You should confront her again and let her know what you know...yes about checking her history because if there is something going on between the two of them then you have the right to know about it.

Just don't get too close to this girl until you really figure out whats going on...and don't accept an answer like "nothing" because there is obviously something still there with her.

My girlfriend is checking her ex boyfriends myspace page constantly - Should I be concerned?

Don't feel too bad, she is just checking up on him, and it means that she is not 100% completely over him. Us girls do these things, as a form of mild stalking , haha, but we only do it to guys that we're not over yet. Your gf is just not over him yet and so she acts this way as a form of release and security to her. It's not healthy behaviour but she just can't help it. I have an exbf whom I'm not over yet and he's still on my buddy list even though I don't talk to him. If it really bothers you just talk to her, no one else can clear it up better than her:) Just don't accuse her of anything and trust her cuz in my opinion I don't think you have anything to worry about. Everyone - guys and girls have that one ex that we just can't get over and think about a lot, and for your gf this guy is it. She knows it's over with that ex, she just can't let go completely, but don't worry she's not gonna run off and leave you.

Good luck:)

My girlfriend is checking her ex boyfriends myspace page constantly - Should I be concerned?

I wouldn't worry too much about it. Women are very different from men and she probably only wants to make sure he isn't dissing her or she may just be curious about him simply because he isn't in her life anymore.

There is that slim chance that she is having doubts or missing the ex. Work on getting him out of her head. Do NOT keep asking her "What's Wrong?" Like in The 40-Year-Old Virgin...that really gets on our nerves. If a woman doesn't want to talk about what's wrong then she isn't going to talk no matter how many times you ask.

Another alternative is back off from her. Give her some time and space and stay off of her computer, if it was yours you wouldn't want her snooping.

My girlfriend is checking her ex boyfriends myspace page constantly - Should I be concerned?

don't get too worked up over it by the sounds if things she's not completely over him that doesn't mean she still has feelings for him just that it could be a case of he hurt her really bad during the relationship and she's just waiting for things to go wrong for him for a lot of people that makes them feel better like their getting what they deserve. it is being bitter and she probably can't see what she is doing. for her to move on she must forgive him them. by you bringing this up in conversation you are admitting that you don't trust her and you've been cheaking up on her. so let it go it's her way of getting over it pushing the subject might just push her away best of luck

My girlfriend is checking her ex boyfriends myspace page constantly - Should I be concerned?

H*** yes you should be concerned! It's pretty obvious that she's still carrying a torch for the guy and would dump you in a heartbeat if he were to come back.