Fat guy "friend"?

so i have this guy friend who is very big,

and really likes me

he tells me, that he has a crush on me and wants to

to go with me to shows and stuff and chill

well i dont kknow how to tell him, i cant stand "fat" people.

im a very nice person, and will NEVER openly admit i hate fat people.

but he calls me by and doll and cutie when he talks to me.

I HATE IT. but i dont want to tell him because other guys call me that and i dont say anything.

we were on myspace,

and he told me

"aw, i want you to love me, your really cute ily"

so i told him

"aw, i love you too....

like a brother%26lt;33"

then he said aw, that sucks cause i have a huge

crush on you.

he still calls me baby and tells me he misses me.

i always considered him my gay friend.

but i dont know i really dont like him

and he grosses me out.

how can i tell him?

Fat guy "friend"?

your going to be fatter then him in 1 or 2 years. "Hate" is a big word.

Fat guy "friend"?

You don't tell him. That would kill him.

Fat guy "friend"?

Tell him you're a lesbian. Haha. xP

Fat guy "friend"?

WOW SHALLOW ! ! ! ! !

Fat guy "friend"?

If you are really that shallow and mean, just do him a favor and stay away from him.

Fat guy "friend"?

You are no nice person look at the words you are using, why are you calling yourself nice at all?

Stop leading him on and tell him that you don't want to be around him.He's better off without "friends" like you.Friends look past superficialities.

Fat guy "friend"?

tell him to go on a diet plan like umm low carb diet or the peanutbutter diet nad tell him to lift weights and do a little bit of cardio and then ull think of it again

Fat guy "friend"?

tell him you need to finish your education for another 5 years and at the means time you are not interested to date anybody, fat or skinner ,rich or poor.

Fat guy "friend"?

theres not really a good way to tell him except coming out and saying that you dont like it if you dont want to be friends with him then dont worry about and just stop hanging out with him, if you still wanted to be friends then tell him

Fat guy "friend"?

Evidently he suffers from low or no self esteem. He should waste his time on someone as shallow and self absorbed as you are.

Fat guy "friend"?

I'm sorry but it sounds like you are a very shallow person. Fat people disgust you, you have more of a problem than him. You are one of those close minded, shallow looks kind of obsessed kind of person. You deserve everything you get in life. So go throw up what you just ate and go be shallow. Go find one of those guys that are really hot and cheats on you with everything that walks. Good Luck, miss shallow. And this is what I'm talking about, this country has become a shallow environment, a breeding ground for looks. Maybe you could help him loose weight, or something more helpful, telling him you hate fat people is just plain rude. Awwweee how I don't miss being young and stupid.

Fat guy "friend"?

You will have to seriously sit him down and tell him that it makes you uncomfortable when he calls you those things and that he likes you. You have every right to feel comfortable and he has to undertand that. Tell him you like him only as a friend and that you never saw him as boyfriend material. Tell him what you said in your question, but leave out the fat remarks.

Fat guy "friend"?

HAHA srry thats really funny... poor guy cant take the hint

well ill try my hardest...

just talk to him say look... ur a really nice friend but i dont like u in that way i think it would b best if we just took alil break from each other

i hope you like that...just remember to be as nice as possible... hope i helped ;)

Fat guy "friend"?

Hating fat people is stupid. I can tell from the way you write that you are young and you don't yet understand that love can come from anywhere, and that attraction can grow if the romantic dynamic is right.

However, attraction is important in a relationship... so if this is how you feel then you should just tell him "I'm not interested in dating you but you are a good friend, let's not lose that"... it sucks to be on the receiving end of that, but if you aren't going to date him, tell him... firmly and absolutely. If him calling you baby and doll and such things bother you, tell him. You don't have to tell him why (as it would make you look shallow) but make sure its clear. After that, what can you really do?

Try not to be "disgusted" by fat people. They are people too. They love and hurt and feel just like everyone else, and they are just as capable and deserving of love as anyone else.

Fat guy "friend"?

Just tell him that you only like him as a friend. Tell him that it makes you uncomfortable when he calls you baby and things like that. It doesn't matter if other guys flirt with you the same way. If it makes you uncomfortable for him to do it, then you should tell him so. Nothing wrong with not feeling the same way he does. It doesn't mean that you are stuck up. You will not always find people to be attractive that are attracted to you. That is just life. He will have to deal with it. Most people try to be nice about the situation and not say anything because they don't want to hurt someones feelings. But most guys take that the wrong way. They mistake niceness for feelings that you don't have for them. He will probably be smart and take the hint when you say something to him. If he isn't then just remove him from your friends list on my space and ignore him until he learns how to talk to you appropriately. Whatever you decide to say, try not to say that you think he is fat. No need to try to hurt his feelings. Just saying that you don't have any romantic feelings about him should be good enough. Good luck. Take care.

Fat guy "friend"?

Well, just tell him to stop, say you're not into him that way.

Fat guy "friend"?

You could tell him by doing something. Not saying it. I mean like, get a random boy, tell him to pretend to hang out eith you so the "fat" guy would get jelous and leave oyu. He may starting to be saying, "WAA! Why did you break up with me?", don't say anything bad like, "Oh grow up!", but tell him that you just don't want to hang out with him. However, he may say,"But you said that you love me!!" You just have to say that you just don't want to hang out with him anymore.

Fat guy "friend"?

im going to laugh when you are fatter then him, and he says the same **** about you

Fat guy "friend"?

First of all don't hate me because I'm beautiful and second you're fat and ugly and you and your fat friend will make a gorgeous couple call me sweetie I'll fix your teeth so they can be beautiful like mines I have pearly whites don't hate me cuz I'm beautiful

Fat guy "friend"?

tell him ur soo sorry but u lhave a huge crush on someone else for a long time and that ur going out with him but u cant tell him who it is. its better than telling the truth =]]

Fat guy "friend"?

lol. Ya, I could never date a fat person either. Just give him the old line that "you just want to be friends and you don't want to get into a relationship because that would ruin your friendship and that you are really sorry." He is not going to stop until you tell him. Or he might stop if you get another boyfriend. gl

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btw, I want to say that not liking fat people does not mean you are a terrible person. Yes it is superficial but it also can mean that person does not have enough self respect to take care of them self, eat right, exercise, and attempt to look attractive.