Sunday, December 6, 2009

The typical "guy" question,but i need some answers!?

Ive known this guy for about a year or so.



i dont see him, unless someone has a get-together, or party.



i say hi, to him ect...



i usually talk to him on myspace a lot. I really like him, and a lot of other guys like me, but im so stuck on him, i dont want to give the others a chance. And i feel that he wont like me because he's in highschool, and im in 8th. If you wanna know more you can email me. so_fly@hotmail.com.



Is there anyway i can help him know i like him?



Or should i let him go?



thanks to the people who reply, i really need some help.



CONFUSED!!!!



The typical "guy" question,but i need some answers!?

Just tell him you like him! You'll never know how he feels if you don't. And besides if hes not into you hes in high school and your in middle school so it's not that awkward. Whatever you do don't tell him over the computer!



The typical "guy" question,but i need some answers!?

um is he single? if so sure go ahead otherwise leave him alone because youll only make it into a problem



The typical "guy" question,but i need some answers!?

well if your in 8th grade i would wait because high school is just around the corner for you, so if you go to the same one then you will see him all the time and then its a perfect time to let him know your interested in him. good luck :)



enjoy being young, it wont last forever.



The typical "guy" question,but i need some answers!?

If he is single go for it. Most of the guys I know are way too shy to make the first move. Start by having a reason to talk to him face-to-face. After talking to him more ask him to hang out at the movies, mall, ect with a group of friends. See how things go from there.



The typical "guy" question,but i need some answers!?

Whats the Ages for 8th Grade and High School?



Anywho goo for it.



Worse that can happen is he says no and your whole world comes to an end. You start dressing in black and start hating everything around you.



The typical "guy" question,but i need some answers!?

I like a guy in 9th and im in 7th. I talk to him on AIM. I used to LOVE him but now I like him only a little. Ive known him since sept. (Drama which ended in Nov.) I used to flirt with him and sometimes he'd flirt back. 8th and highschool isn't that bad depending on the diff. in years. When you are older it matters less and less but now it matters the most because guys like to have high reps and be popular. Sometimes if they date an younger girl rather than one there own age it seems slutty for the girl and loser like for the guy. I've realized it would be too hard for me to date someone in 9th but I would prob over the summer :). Try being really good friends and then make your move! You might end up being really good friends but not like him as much as you do if you know more about him. Give others a chance because there is NO TRUE LOVE in middle school (well, mostly its very unusual). You'll probably get over him someday and the other guys might not be there. Try guys your own age and work your way up and maybe your popularity will bring his up and he might use you so be warned. Then again, he might not just like you because your popular. Don't miss the other opportunities its always good to have experience so you'll be prepared for breaking-up etc...



The typical "guy" question,but i need some answers!?

oh i think the only way to let him know is to be honest with him. just try talking to him more in person or on the phone so he can get to know you a little better. (guys don't fall as easily as girls, unfortunately.)



good luck.



The typical "guy" question,but i need some answers!?

try to get closer to him



feelings?passions?ask wat is on his mind!



this shows that you wanna get close to him without actually tellin him..



The typical "guy" question,but i need some answers!?

Okay, I'm going to answer your "additional detail" first because it doesn't show up when I'm answering questions, and I always forget about them: why's it wrong to tell people important things on the computer?



Answer: because people are different on the computer. A lot of people don't like to admit it, but you're DIFFERENT, especially when you're a teenager. Why do you want to tell him online? Because it'd be less awkward, right? And why's it less awkward? Because he's distant. He's not right there in front of you. He's somewhere閳ヮ泲lse. That's why, and that's why you shouldn't. It's different, talking to someone online. And anyway, if you want to date him, you're going to have to get used to talking to him in person anyway.



If he's a lot older (10th grade or up, I'd say) it's gonna be hard to find things you can both relate to talk about, but if you're doing fine on MySpace and your conversations are interesting and fairly deep, that's a good sign.



Dating someone requires a LOT of talking, way more than you'd think if you haven't. Try to imagine spending an hour talking to him (coz that's about how long dinner at a pretty nice restaurant takes). Do you think you could do it without it being realllllly boring for both of you?



IF YOU THINK THIS WILL WORK: go ask him out. Wooooo I know it's non-traditional, but look, he's probably shy too. Asking people out is tough, but it's like ripping off bandaids or getting a needle: just do it.



The typical "guy" question,but i need some answers!?

wtf are u asking?

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