Girls/guys, please help me to work out what this guy is doing to me?!...?

I once dated a guy who I think is gorgeous, we'd slept together a couple of times and then went our seperate ways. Not long ago, I noticed he was on Myspace, so I sent him a message saying "fancy seein u on here!, hope ur cool" and he didn't reply. A couple of weeks later, I saw him out clubbing, my friends say he constantly stares at me, and she even caught him staring at my ***. A week later, I decided to add him as a friend on myspace only for my request to be 'pending' so he didn't accept it but didn't DENY it either. He's signed in since my request so he's definitely seen it. What do you think he's playing at? I'm a lil embarrassed that I've been 'rejected'. please help and tell me what he's doing?

Girls/guys, please help me to work out what this guy is doing to me?!...?

He wanted some a s s and he got some. Its over. Oh and what your friend told you, she was lying to make you feel better.

Girls/guys, please help me to work out what this guy is doing to me?!...?

myspace is a bunch of bull ****

he is being an idiot

Girls/guys, please help me to work out what this guy is doing to me?!...?

He is Playing. He knows that you are attached to him in some kind of way and He knows that He can play with your heart.

You don't need that at all. Find a Real Man.

Girls/guys, please help me to work out what this guy is doing to me?!...?

I don't want to hurt you. but i think he just wanted one thing. Just stop trying to get his attention. You are better then him. Keep your head up! When you see him just make believe you don't even see him :) Don't worry you will be okay.

Girls/guys, please help me to work out what this guy is doing to me?!...?

He is obviously playing some kind of stupid game. He is childish and stupid. He needs to grow up and tell you what his problem is.

Girls/guys, please help me to work out what this guy is doing to me?!...?

If he is not answering, he is not interested I am sorry.

Girls/guys, please help me to work out what this guy is doing to me?!...?

i think you need to relax myspace is an online sight, him signing in could have very well been one of this friend, or family so dont sweat it and if you like this guy just talk to him in the club and mabey after you hook up a few more times you can get the skinny on the myspace thing from him.

Girls/guys, please help me to work out what this guy is doing to me?!...?

just forget bout him, all he wanted was one thing, dont let this one guy get to u.

Girls/guys, please help me to work out what this guy is doing to me?!...?

guys like the game...you need to sit back and let him chase you. if you he knows that he has you in his pocket...he isnt going to do anything. you need to remove your freind request and sit back...let him chase you ... any guy will tell you thats the fun of it. put the thrill back...the best revenge is to show him how happy you are without him .. .let him come after you!!! wish you the best ... be strong.. good things come to those who wait..

Girls/guys, please help me to work out what this guy is doing to me?!...?

Forget him. All he really was is another good looking guy

who is obviously immature. You were nice enough to try and just say hello on myspace and he didnt reply.You dont need to feel embarrassed for that he obviously has some growing up to do . I mean you slept together you went your own ways and he cant even say hello because what he is afraid that you will run after him because what he is so great! Forget about it he is nothing but a child.Next time you see him act like you dont even know that he ever exisited and if he does ever grow enough balls to talk to you, be polite but distant and act like you dont really care.

Girls/guys, please help me to work out what this guy is doing to me?!...?

Aw man lol That just means that he may be talking to someone or he dont want to get involved with you again. At the time you two may have been something, but now he is over it. That is just a guy thing to do. Is his profile private? If so then there might be stuff on there he dont want you to see. Not because he is embarrassed but because if he did want to "hook up with you" / have sex with you, then he could because you may not know about any of his other flings.

But if his profile isn't maybe he dont want you to send him sexy comments and have some of his other girls mad. Not that he is a player, maybe he is trying to talk to someone and if he adds you it will mess it up.

For the most part he is just messing with you. Why didn't you say anything to him at the club. Of course he isn't going to reply to that - "fancy seein u on here! hope ur cool" - because it isn't really a question. He probably is just thinking, oh ok, she saw me. It is embarrasing, trust me I know lol. I write a guy that I know from a while ago but I use to have a crush on him. But when he doesn't write back when I say something like - "How is everything going?" or " What's up?" - then I feel a little weird like my questions aren't good enough to answer when he get online. I know some people only get on for a second to check their mail and relpy later when they have time, so just give it time. My friend use to do that to me too and that was a girl. I was best friends with her but then i lost touch with her for about 5 years, but we found each other on myspace and she just didnt relpy. So I was like F it. It is the past so I deleted her off my myspace and then she sent a message that said sorry she didn't know I was mad about - and that she has a daughter now that she has to take care of so she is only on for a sec. But she only found out that I was mad beacuse one of our other friends told her.

But the point is just let it go. He may not be into you anymore. If it bothers you, just next time you see him ask him why does he act like he dont know you? Good luck :)

Girls/guys, please help me to work out what this guy is doing to me?!...?

He is rejecting you. Everyone gets rejected at some point in their lives. It doesn't mean anything is wrong with you, it is just something that happens. And do you really want to waste your time pinning after some moron who doesn't appreciate you? That is not fun. Next time you see him out, completely ignore him, and pretend you don't remember his name if he talks to you.

As far as I'm concerned, anyone who sleeps with you but refuses to add you as a friend on myspace is a jerk.