ok so i work with this guy who im really starting to like and he seemed to be likeing me to up until recently. we were texting and writing eachother on myspace almost everyday up until like a week ago. we would flirt at work to but then all of a sudden its like i had to make all the effort and he just stopped trying i geuss. were supposed to hang out and make some music together cause were both musicians but it just keeps getting blown off its starting to really piss me off because everytime i actully really like a guy they just seem to treat me like crap and give me the run around and when i dont so much like the guy they wont seem to leave me alone. i would really aprriaciate some good adivice im really sick of being alone and always getting my hopes up on a guy who doesnt really care. what do you think all of a sudden changed this guys mind?
Mixed signals from the guy i like?
That's always the way it is. The guy that totally drives you wild is the one that's impossible to get and the one that you'd rather clean than hang out with is crazy for you. Guys can be so hard to read sometimes, but the one thing I've found is that guys who give mixed signals are trouble. It does really suck when you find a guy and think "he could be the one" and then get crushed when you find out that he couldn't care less about you. Being alone isn't always bad though. Being alone is better than being with someone that isn't right for you, that you'll just end up breaking up with anyway. Enjoy being single and free and know that when you meet a worthy guy you can date him because you've been bettering yourself in the meantime. Your exact situation happened to me recently. I was head over heels for him, and everything was going great, and then he just stopped calling completely. It was so abrupt, and completely caught me off guard. I found out from an outside source that he had a gf at the time. I'm not saying that's necessarily the case with this guy, but it could be. If he doesn't have a gf, then he might have just gotten interested in someone else. It sounds like he's pulling away if things keep getting pushed back. Another thing that's easier said than done is, just be friends with a guy before you date him. You learn so much more about someone's true personality when they're not trying to impress you. That way, it's easier to weed out the bad ones before you let yourself get head over heels for them. I hope that you find out either way and best of luck!
Mixed signals from the guy i like?
Wow this is exactly my situation but as a guy, I know it sucks and i am pissed off beyond all belief but i am really sorry i can't give you advice on this one
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