My girlfriends guy best friend?

idk much about this guy except hes second on my gfs myspace and she spent the night at ehr friends house with him there too and he defended her from a guy that i didnt like to much which is cool but it worrys me because hes second on her myspace and ya sense when should a guy be that close that quick idk and now i probaly pissed her off cause i told her im so worried about it in the past ive worried about this before with other gfs and i was right ALL THE TIME idk if should trust this one or not i need to try to stop worrying but i cant stop myself help me for god sake

My girlfriends guy best friend?

All comes down to trust.....do you trust her and respect her and her decisions. If you don't trust her then it is only going to ruin your relationship with her. If you really like this girl and want to be with her then your going to have to trust her. My best friend is a guy and what also makes it harder is the fact that he is also my ex. But that does not mean that we are secretly dating or want to be back together as he has a girlfriend and I've started to see someone which I have made it clear to the person that I'm seeing that my best friend is a guy and they understand that. If you are open and honest with the person then you don't have a problem, if a person hides things from you or tries to hide things from you then you start to worry and have a problem.

No matter what a guy can just be a friend just because your opposite sexes it doesn't mean that you are attracted to each other in that way and are going to get it on. A guy can be just as much a platonic friend as a female can. If it does bother you alot, talk to your gf tell her your thoughts and feelings and your concerns as if she doesn't know and if you try to stop her seeing her friend she won't see why your getting upset about this friend all she will see is that your getting jealous and trying to control what she does and who she sees and that will push her away.

A relationship is built on trust, honesty and loyalty just to name the most important if you don't have those then it's no use being in a relationship as it will only affect your relationship with a person if you don't trust them. But the most effective and most healthy element in a relationship is communication.

Just because you were worried about this with other girlfriends and that you were right, she is not your other girlfriends and she is a totally another person which you must realise just because these other girlfriends were like that doesn't mean that she is. Talk to her tell her how you feel and your concerns and ask her to be honest with you about things and I'm sure you have nothing to worry about, that she will be honest and you will know if she is being honest with you, you will see it in her eyes or by her reactions.

My girlfriends guy best friend?

sucks dont it, if you dont like whats going on then just dump her and who cares

My girlfriends guy best friend?

hun,

hes her best friend i doubt ne things happening. my guy best friend stays ova sometimes round my place and his gf doesnt mind. you just gotta chill

My girlfriends guy best friend?

Talk to the guy, tell him you don't know if he's trying to get her but that if he is he better back off, cause you won't take that.

My girlfriends guy best friend?

wow, secong on myspace, that sooo great,

seriously, mabey you should pull ur head outta ur *** and relize that not all guys are out to **** you over, mabey he is just a really good friend, probibly better than you. so leave it alone, he doesnt need somebitchy friend trying to ruin thier friendship because she got alittle jeaslous.

My girlfriends guy best friend?

Im sorry, but your girlfriend is currently interested in this guy. Don't worry though, she isn't cheating on you. If a girl really liked you, she wouldn't spend much time with other men. Listen, one day you'll find a girl who is totally crazy about you. She'll be so crazy about you, you'll be her #1 and #2 on her myspace!

But as far as your current gf, I say you jump the gun and break up with her. I promise you she'll end up with that other guy sooner or later.

My girlfriends guy best friend?

hey , this what I'm going to tell you if you love her so much you should be able to trust her but since you had stuff like this happen before i think you should try talking to her about it. I'm a girl that only hang out with guys but my bf is always their when I'm with them. do what your heart tells you to do!

My girlfriends guy best friend?

Is that mean that your GF's best friend is a guy? If that is the case ... yah... its weird, cause I am exactly like you .... I am jealous person, too. (too much) Though I have to control it sometime..... I mean most of the time...hehe. Otherwise, that will be the end of the relationship. But for how long we can hold it on??? Only God knows.

I know other girls in the same situation...too. I just can't seem to understand why they are so compatible with each other as friend but, they cannot be as lovers? Really that's weird. Or in my assessment, I think .... they have what they call ... secret feelings to each other, they just cannot say it. The reason why they love to hang up together.

I want to tell you ....to bear with that if you really love her .. but, for what reason she is doing this? If she is happy with other man ... what are you there for??? She can call you anytime if she need any help or assistance. You can be her best friend too? Right???

There are two options:

- If you cannot stop it ... take it (accept being 2nd to her).

And try your best to act and do your part as her BF.

- If you cannot take it. Leave it. Why do you have to suffer and punish yourself. If she really loves you. She will be happy just to be with you and not with the other guy.

But wait .... do you have any reason to be jealous??? Maybe this guy is a ..... she?????

Check it out..... goodluck.