Guy help please ladies?

i liked this guy, his name is alex and i flirted with him on myspace and all this stuff, and in a way i asked him out and he was like sorry i dont really think your that pretty and that really hurt me, cause everyone says im pretty and im not trying to be like omg im ugly im going to kill myself but like i dont know what to do. and on the other hand i kinda like this other guy, his name is dan. we went out to starbucks and stuff it wasa pretty bad date but ok, ( by the way both of these guys are a grade older then me and know each other) casue like wehn im around dan im just kidna like ok whatever, i kinda like you, but wheni see alex like in the halls ( i dont actualy go upto him and talk) my heart is like omg he is so hot, but he called me ugly, and i have these weird wasy of TRYING to get alexs atention and i just cant helo myself, i need someother ways to get his atention rather then screeming or jumping on a locker

and i dont know what to do about dan and alex

Guy help please ladies?

You are very pretty! Alex may be hot, but it's gone to his head. Move onto the next one, sweetie! Alex is superficial and shallow if he called you ugly. Truely. And if Dan isn't doing it for you, move on. I was in a relationship where I wasn't head over heals in love with the guy, and that's not good either. You can have it all. You can be totally attracted to your boyfriend, want to spend time with him beucase the conversation is GREAT and have him want you just as much!

Just dont have sex until you're married!!

Guy help please ladies?

It's really unhealthy to want to work so hard to get the attention of someone who's already told you you're not that pretty. This is what should be worrying you. The healthy reaction to a man who says you're not that pretty is to say "okay" and walk away without thinking about him another minute. The SUPER healthy reaction is to laugh (but only if it's really genuine, don't do it if you're not truly mirthful or it will come across very badly), letting your smile prove him wrong, then walk away and don't think about him ever again.

Girls and women who have issues with their fathers (being more or less unavailable, or emotionally distant, or abusive) moon after men who put them down, loving them more for it. It's a sure road to misery. Heal your inner pain. If you're young enough and it's possible, get your dad to pay some real quality attention to you. If your dad isn't available, try your stepdad, grandad, or an uncle, someone you feel comfortable with (no one who makes you feel creepy).

Hang in. Of course you're beautiful. Not everyone will see that, but in the end that's a good thing.

Guy help please ladies?

well..u r really pretty its the truth. if alex said u werent that pretty he was wrong..and a guy shouldnt tell u that in the first place it was a jerk thing to do..so mayb just forget bout him

Guy help please ladies?

don't be hard on yourself if everyone says your very pretty and don't listen to some guy that cant handle you

Guy help please ladies?

no im not a lady..........indeed i am dude but im bored and there's nuthin to do..........lol.........juss follow ur gut i mean like u shouldnt base ur relationship solly on looks but how they are....get to know dem a bit maybe if he gets to kno u nd u get to kno him he won think ur ugly..............keep dat in mind.......hit me bak.....peace and jah bless........